How would you feel if your partner read yaoi?

I read a lot of yaoi and I'm kind of shy about telling people, especially other lesbians. I know a lot of people even think it is 'fetishizing gay men'. But for me, there are several reasons I read it. One, I relate far more to the body type of femboys/short men because I am slim and have a really small chest + broader shoulders than how a lot of women are drawn. I don't want to constantly be comparing myself to the perfect women in yuri (and don't get me started on straight stuff). I also feel like they aren't as forced into the boxes that women are in yuri (and hetero stuff). They are allowed to explore more fashion-wise and scenario wise. I also have a lot of kinks that just aren't represented in yuri (the little yuri that exists). I don't see the characters as 'men' specifically, just people in a story, but it removes a lot of the misogyny for me.

I'm just worried about how it makes me look to other women. I know lesbians who don't care, but I want to see if they are outliers.