would you rather love or be loved?

saw this question somewhere recently and wanted to ask reddit for your opinions. if you only had one choice, which would you pick and why? also this question applies to like romantic relationships only so no religion involved, family or pets or anything.

edit: i cant believe i have to clarify, this scenario isnt meant to be realistic it is HYPOTHETICAL, because no **** who wldnt choose both if they cld 😭