Cuddled First Date Then Rejected For Virginity

23M met a really pretty girl 27F OLD. Texted and talked on the phone for almost a week and she agreed to go out with me last night. We got some drinks and talked and she was laughing the whole time. I drove her back and we listened to our favorite music (which was the same) and sang along. She even brought up date ideas and said I could come hang with her thru the week at her place. Get back and she asks if I wanna come in and watch a movie. Obviously I know what that means. I initiated cuddling and holding hands and we talked some. It felt so fucking amazing having contact with a woman for the first time in my life. She would roll over and look at me but not for long. I thought about kissing her but didn’t know if she thought it was too soon. We fell asleep cuddling a few times and would wake up and talk and laugh. I came home at 1am and get a text from her “have u ever slept with anyone before?”. I was honest. She says all is good and that we can take our time.

Fast forward to this morning and she’s texting me like normal. Then she asks me if I was turned on cuddling and I said yes. And she starts on how I didn’t try to kiss her and I said I know I should have. Then it turns terrible. She said it’s a lot of pressure on her and that she’s never been in this situation. “Your situation is quite unusual”. “You know most girls will leave if the sex isn’t good”. I just told her I could be a quick learner but she’s not hearing it.

But hopefully some in here can get a few lessons from this

1} lie, lie, lie, lie, lie…. Never admit you’re a virgin. One of my older female friends told me to lie but wouldn’t just straight up tell me it was that bad. This girl knew I’d never been in a relationship but I’m sure still thought I had sex before.

2} Kiss her if u get the chance… if you are cuddling she wants you 1000%